Also, would she be looked down upon more for her race and gender?
Okay, I respect this subreddit and its rules, so I'll frame this nicely. This is not a historical question; you're not a caucasian girl living in Shanghai in AD 10, because there weren't Caucasian girls living in Shanghai at this time, and so your question is speculative. This kind of question really belongs in /r/HistoricalWhatIf.
Better questions that you could have asked:
Do we know anything about foreign presence in Shanghai in the 1st century?
What's the earliest evidence of contact between Shanghai-based cultures and Europeans?
Are there historical records of attitudes to foreigners from 1st century China?
edit: grammar
Shanghai was not a city of any importance until the second millenium A.D. "European" (as a cultural descriptor) and "Caucasian" (a term originating from 18th century scientific racism) would not exist as generally accepted concepts, so not only would the locals not have a term for white Europeans, you wouldn't either. Ethnicity/nationality, in its contemporary scholarly usage (see, for instance, Benedict Anderson or Anthony Smith), is used to refer to any pretext for group belonging based on perceptions of shared culture or heritage; it would be obvious that you were of "a different Ethnic Mold [sic]," just as Yue, Xiongnu, or Central Asian peoples would be.
You may be interested in the numerous questions this sub has previously received about contacts between the Roman empire and Han-dynasty China, which would be all the Sino-European relations that could've occurred in your period of interest.