I know some people credit their civil war with ruining what was left of the empire Bonus: Can anyone tell me if the Cantacuzino family is related to them
Donald Nicol has actually written a book on the family, and another one on John Kantakouzenos. They were an immensly wealthy, landed family with a sense of entitlement - something which is said to have influenced John Kantakouzenos' politics - who rose during the Komnenian and Palaiologan period. The Cantacuzino family might be related to them, but their connection is not clearly established.
You can't research you family's history by asking what was going on in the Byzantine Empire. You've been told that multiple times from the looks of things. I did a basic search for the person you asked about and found some interesting results:
I suggest you contact someone who specializes in Eastern European genealogy if you want to dig further back. You might have some big hurdles ahead of you with the history of the regions your surname is associated with.