I've read before that it wasn't until the age of chivalry that the notion of romantic love became a part of western culture. How can this be the case, if to me, it seems like romantic love is an inextricable part of the human condition. What kind of love was there before then?

by moby323
xTheFreeMason

I suspect the meaning was that romance in a form that we would recognise as being romance appeared then? However, it is worth noting that not every culture has romantic pairings in the same way as we do. If I remember correctly, in Papau New Guinea (or possibly the Trobriands, it's been a while) children are looked after by the mother and her brother, so the relationship between lovers is obviously very different. Therefore, to say that romantic love is something inherently human is not necessarily logically true.

Georgy_K_Zhukov

You may have better luck in /r/AskAnthropology, as this is a rather broad question for this subreddit.