If this question is too broad for you how about Capetian France or Tudor England?
No. At least, not always. Mary, Queen of Scots is a good example; this isn't Tudor England (rather famously, no such marriage happened in England under Tudor monarchs), but it is contemporaneous.
Mary Stuart became Queen of Scots in 1542, married in 1558, was widowed in 1560, married again in 1565, widowed in 1567 and married a month later, then abdicated later that year. Her father was James V of Scots, her son and successor was James VI of Scots. Her third husband (whom she married while still on the throne, and to whom she was still wed when she stepped down) was James Hepburn, but doesn't affect the numbering of the other Jameses for the simple reason that he was never King of Scots. (He was created Duke of Orkney and consort to the Queen, but was never styled as King.)
Further, the death of Mary's first two husbands did not trigger succession as it would have if the throne was theirs rather than hers, and her abdication led to her son becoming King, not her husband (to whom her son was no relation, as he was from her second marriage).
TO add to /u/dokh 's answer :
Concerning France, the succession law of the Kingdom of France followed a strict agnatic primogeniture system so the question is mostly answered for France. It means that the oldest son of a ruling monarch would inherit but not his daughters. In case of absence of a male child ( as it has been the case for the three sons of Henri II for example : François II, Charles IX and Henri III ) the closest male relative ( such as a brother or uncle or cousin ) of the ruling monarch becomes the heir.
This is why there has never been a Queen of France. There were consort queens of course but never a ruling Queen ( such as Elisabeth I for example ).
And as far as I know of, women were not asked to relinquish their titles in favour of their husband. At least not in France ( for the female nobility ).
Women were not allowed to inherit the throne in Capetian France, nor were children able to claim the throne via the maternal line. So the question is moot for France.