You might be interested in threads from the FAQ section on "Comparing the Modernizations of Qing Chian and Meiji Japan":
##Meiji Japan and Qing China
-o- "What allowed Japan to so effectively modernize and remain independent, while other Asian countries were controlled by European powers?" (12 comments | 1 year old)
-o- "Why was 19th century modernization so successful in Japan and less so in other Asian countries?" ( 4 comments | 7 months old)
-o- "Why, in the 19th century, did Japan modernize so rapidly and successfully but China did not?" (20 comments | 1 year old)
-o- "Why did China fail to effectively modernise itself during the 19th c. to catch up to the West, whereas Japan was exceptionally successful?" (4 comments | 2 years old)
-o- In "Wednesday AMA: I am AsiaExpert, one stop shop for all things Asia. Ask me anything about Asia!" (thread: 1570 comments | 2 years ago) , there was a question asked about the Qing side of this issue (comment thread: 6 comments)
Other Comparisons
-o- "Why was the Japanese attempt at modernization so successful compared to places like the Ottoman Empire, Khedival Egypt or China?" (14 comments | over 1 year old)
##Followup Questions
If, after looking through the above threads, there are major questions that have been left unanswered or specific topics given insufficient detail, feel free to ask followup questions. Liberal quoting from these threads are encouraged to both allow for clearer answers and to prevent users from wasting time repeating points already addressed.
The following users are flaired on the topic and/or have answered questions on it in the past, and would likely be able to answer these followup questions:
-o- /u/TheWalrus5
-o- /u/lukeweiss
-o- /u/diana_mn