What I mean is, since it was such a stigma to be gay, it seems very unlikely that anyone would ask if someone was gay, or if asked, admit to it. So how could anyone find another gay person to have a relationship with? Since we know gay people used to be burned at the stake, it must have somehow happened, but I'm curious how it could have
hi! there have been several posts on homosexuality during the middle ages; check these out
Are there any noteworthy example of tolerance towards homosexuality in the Medieval Age?
Is there any evidence of homosexual activity amongst medieval European monks?
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