What's the origin of the phrase "Sent to live on a farm upstate," as a euphemism for a beloved pet dying? I've never personally seen anyone try to convince their kids that's what happened, and it sounds very specific to New York City, and yet it's such a well known phrase in American English

by ChlamydiaDellArte
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puppypoet

I have a question about this quote. Could this be connected to when people would send family to mental institutions up north? People got sent to those places all the time for all kinds of reasons, and for some it was a death sentence.

captainloverman

Another question about this, is this the same as “he bought the farm” when talking about someone dying?