When did people decide to change the name of "The Great War" into WW1, and did this name change grab on with the average person and WW1 veterans right away?
I found this article by a head of IT at Oxford who also is a member of its English Language and Literature faculty and the "Reader in E-learning and Digital Libraries." (Oxford seems AWESOME.) He discusses the debate over what to call the war as it was happening- usually between The Great War and The World War- and mentions that the war was first called The First World War in 1920.
What's most interesting about his piece is that he includes a link to a resource that I would never have thought of- Google Books Ngram, which searches the books in Google's databases (and there are a LOT of them) and tracks key words over time. Here is the Ngram Viewer which he made for the terms World War I (and the alternate spelling World War One), The Great War, and The First World War.
Overall, the impression from the chart is that the term The Great War was in by far the greatest usage from the end of that war to the end of the 1930s, and that immediately after the start of WWII the term World War I (and to a lesser extent the First World War) climbed steadily and drastically in use, peaking in the decade from about 1945-1955. There seems to have been a slight use of the term First World War prior to 1939, but it was not the common usage.
A few caveats:
However, despite these caveats, I think that the conclusions which are drawn by and large here are really interesting and seem reliable and indicative of the real trends.