Not to discourage further answers but you can find answers to similar questions here:
From /u/Enrico_Dandolo - https://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/2qg79k/question_about_the_spread_of_latin_in_the_western/
/u/anphph focuses on the ERE - https://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/7vwdmc/why_did_latin_persist_and_morph_into_the_romance/
While /u/LosDosTacosLocos and /u/YuunofYork go into detail on Latin structure pre and post Roman Empire and how it changes - https://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/amqhqq/at_what_point_did_people_start_to_realize_that/