When did the terms "romance" and "romantic" come to mean what they do today - and what did they previously call what we call romance?

by Toaau

As I shuffle through history, I've found various meaning applied to these words that aren't anything to do with out modern conception of 'romance' as a catch-all for love. The most obvious examples I know of are Romance languages/cultures; the romances which preempted the novel and some writers, such as Nathaniel Hawthorne, continued to categorise their long prose stories as; and the 18th-century romantic movement. With the last one particularly I've confused some friends thinking I mean lovey-dovey poetry or music, when really I mean tiger-tiger-burning-bright, in-Xanadu-did-Kubla-Kahn, or Beethoven-y stuff. While I can see a direct line from the heightened emotions of romanticism and the fantastical nature of medieval romances, I'm interested as to when we started using romance as we do today — and what people would've called our broad ideas of romance/romantic before then?

AncientHistory

While there is more to say on this subject, you might like to check out my answer to What is the history of the romance genre? When did it become its own thing? What works influence it?