Also, what would my options be between being poor vs having wealth?
There's always more that can be said, but you may be interested in a couple of my past answers:
In older days let's say before infant formula was invented how did lower class/poor families tend to/feed newborns in circumstances where the birth mother died during labor and couldn't afford/ get a wet nurse.
Did women publicly breastfeed in the 18-19th century United States?