More can be said, but What happened to the Loyalists that stayed in the United States? written by u/GeneralLeeBlount discusses North Carolina.

What Would Life Be Like For a Loyalist Before, During and After The American Revolution? written by u/TRB1783 talks about the before/during/after for several examples in New York

/u/Irishpatobie gave a talk about Loyalists in exile titled GILDED MISERY: RECONSIDERING EMOTIONS AND COMMUNITY DURING THE AMERICAN REVOLUTION as part of the 2020 AskHistorians Digital Conference.

/u/enygma9753 has previously answered What happened to British loyalists in the US following Washington’s victory?