There are a number of good histories of the Revolutionary War: check the Book List. American Revolutions: A Continental History, 1750-1804 by Alan Taylor is recent. It deals with the important French and Indian War, which caused many of the grievances that started the revolt. It also takes the narrative to 1804, a point at which the government was no longer necessarily by the colonial elites, and controlled by one party- which was perhaps a more important revolution than the one that cut the ties with England.

Older books which also do a good job are John Ferling's A Leap in the Dark and Don Higginbotham's The War for American Independence. I still think Higginbotham's book is one of the clearest narratives of events, but like many older books you will not find much attention given to women, Native Americans, or enslaved Blacks.