Though we often say, and with good reason, that the past is a foreign country and people do things differently there, there are also places of commonality. Grief be but one of them. More can always be said on the matter, so if anyone would like to address parental attachment to their children, please don't let this post stop you! More responses are always welcome.
For the meantime, OP, we can come at your question in an admittedly rather gruesome direction: how parents dealt with losing their children. Content warning for grief below, because...well, ashenblight.