You are a married man in the late 1800s-early 1900s. Your wife is getting treatments for "hysteria" by being brought to orgasm by a doctor. What was the general sentiment on how husbands felt about this procedure?

by Smash_4dams
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You might be interested in this post by /u/TinyLittleEggplant digging into the history of your premise as it relates to vibrators, with an in depth reply by /u/kingconani.

This doesn't directly answer your question about husbands opinions, however. This older post, with a reply by a now deleted account is a little more relevant.