How did wealthy Antebellum Southern women (or their pastors for that matter) confront - if they did at all - the fact that their husbands, fathers, and most of their sons were regularly committing adultery and sexual assault in their own households?

by screwyoushadowban

What I'm really wondering about is two things:

  1. Did the nature of the southern elite family dynamic create space for white southern women to attempt (however fruitlessly I assume) to regulate their husbands' and sons' behavior and did they comment on it?

  2. Did southern religious leaders attempt to publicly comment, whether explicitly or euphemistically, on the social and/or Biblical sins of wealthy southern men? I imagine this is pretty unlikely, given their explicit endorsement of the slave society they lived in and the fact that some of them may have been perpetrators of those same things, but the possibility is intriguing to me.

Thank you

Holy_Shit_HeckHounds

I'm the wife of a slaveowner in the southern US in the 1850s. If my husband decided to have his way with a female slave, would I consider it cheating/adultery? written by u/Georgy_K_Zhukov discusses the "rights", "protections" and mistreatment of enslaved Africans pre-civil war with an emphasis on sexual violence

EDIT: What was the Churches Response to the well-known Rape of Slaves? written by u/dscott06 talks about (Southern) Christianity and its view on the Enslaver/enslaved dynamics, with some brief discussion on sexual abuse.

EDIT EDIT: Oops, just saw OP that you posted this exact same question and got the exact same post. I'll leave this up for others. Hope you can get a more specific response